You are attracting people to yourself all the time. Attraction is the most powerful way to find the relationships and team you need to create the things you want for yourself. Not necessarily physical attraction- although that could be involved. I am talking about someone being drawn to you energetically. Drawn to your personality. Drawn to the way you walk through life. Drawn to the way you say something.
These are the people that you are attracting to yourself. You may have had a thought or prayer or dream to have something in your life. You are now attracting people to help you accomplish that. And you will help them
accomplish what they are after. It may even be a shared dream.
Whether you are searching for an employee, customer, friend, teammate, business partner or someone to create a relationship with- it all works the same. The most effective way to meet them is to notice who are drawing to yourself.
But you have to pay attention. They may appear when we are looking to do something else. You may be late or harried. You may be frustrated or in a bad mood. They may not look like we thought they would. They may not be the person that we thought we were supposed to meet across the room.
But they are taking interest in you. They may have gave you a double take. They may be asking you questions. They may be acting shy or self-conscious around you. They may be hovering at the edge of your conversation.
Notice them. Take time to say hi. Explore what the connection is about. You just never know who is trying to meet you.
About the Author
I, Michael Hoffman, am a licensed psychotherapist, teacher, and author with 25 years experience in counseling and teaching experiential workshops. I have maintained this blog since 2009, and my second book Natural Way of Being will published in 2019.
I offer in-person and video-conferencing counseling, intensive workshops, and online courses to allow participants to directly experience their natural way of being and the life they would have for themselves.